Making your partner sit up and take notice of you in the bedroom may be harder than ever with a slew of new technological distractions. Try these surefire tips, though, and you’ll be sure to ignite that passion, or introduce something more to the bedroom than just a place to sleep in:
10. Turn Down The Lights. Take advantage of the play of light and shadows by having a dimmer installed in the 
bedroom. The dark will hide just enough to make your curves and clothes much more interesting, and both genders are more keen to have sex when the lights are down low.
9. Spritz The Scent. Everyone keeps a special perfume they only use on extra-special days such as weddings, anniversaries and first dates. Spray on some of that sensual eau-du-jour to grab your man’s attention and never let go.
8. Put On A Sexy Song. That sax solo by Kenny G. will put in vivid pictures of slow and sensual ideas in your man’s mind, warming him up to the idea of lovemaking in the bedroom. The great thing about music is that each have their own preferences- play John Legend’s All Of Me, or a bass-driven club music to get the blood pumping.
7. Lather On The Oil. Men love the idea of a hot, shiny body awaiting their command. Rub some essential oils on the most erogenous zones, and you’ll look like a supermodel on a swimsuit that guys simply cannot resist.
6. Leave Some For The Imagination. Appearing in the bedroom’s bathroom door fully naked takes the fun and excitement out of being sexy, so rehash and keep some for the imagination. One or two pieces of minimal clothing, or an accessory such as a necklace or high heels are sure to perk up his erotic imagination.
5. Shop For Sexy Lingerie. This might seem a no-brainer, but women often forget the power of a sexy nightie. The feel of lace, silk or mesh stocking will boost your confidence levels to where it can be irresistible for your partner.
4. Roleplay In The Bedroom. Guys love to play a little game, so why not create a special one in the bedroom? A maid’s uniform, a sexy elf or a goth outfit all makes for some great foreplay. For the ultimate fun, try to emulate the setting of the last show you watched on Netflix.
3. A Slow-Motion Strip Dance. This goes well with that exquisite lingerie you’ve bought recently. Practice on a few choreographic moves, and try to take each and every piece of clothing off in the most sensual way you can think of. 
Remember to maintain full eye contact to keep him engaged in your sexy routine.
2. A Sensual Massage. One of the best ways to get physical is to offer a massage that starts in the back and turns into a more naughty act as it goes along. Who says you only get to use your hands? Be creative and bring your other assets- you may even get more out of it than your partner.
1. Introduce A Special Guest. Bedroom action doesn’t always have to be a one-on-one affair. Sometimes a sex toy can make all the difference between humdrum and amazing, mind-blowing sex. The good thing is, there’s a lot to choose from, and there’s always one that will fit in any given situation or couple dynamics.
