Female masturbation is one of life’s pleasures you totally control. “It’s in your hand” might be a little too punny, but seriously it is true and masturbating is the one thing that you do totally control. When! Where! and How! (once you follow our advice!)
Even though it is in your control, this does not mean you automatically know all there is to know or do. Learning how to masturbate for maximum pleasure is not necessarily a natural act and there is much you can learn! Pretty Lady Smiles mean putting that smile on YOU!
Beyond your own self pleasure, masturbation is a great way to discover what turns you on that you can then put to good use when you are with your lover. Masturbation is more than just having an orgasm. Of course that is great, but having a complete sexual experience is what will bring you to a whole new level of sexual pleasure!
To get you started, here are some basics about female masturbation, but you will definately want to expand your knowledge, skills, and pleasure of deeper and deeper orgasmic experiences by reading all our related articles – Plus checking back for critical updates! (see below).
This video has some interesting facts about female masturbation for fun, but skip it and keep reading if you really want to know how to do it right!
Female Masturbation
Even though female masturbation seems less a taboo in the modern age, it has been surveyed that more than 58 percent of women feel guilty to indulge in it, and another 47 percent simply don’t indulge. This is quite a ridiculously disappointing statistics. Women should understand that masturbation is not a sin. You’ve equal right to please yourself, as men. Masturbation is not just about having pleasure in the absence of a partner, but it prepares your body for a great intercourse as well. It is an excellent way to explore what you like and communicate the same to your partner. Men like nothing more than a woman who knows what makes her turn on.
Apparently, no two women are alike and thus, it is quite likely that no two women masturbate in the same manner. Female masturbation provides excellent opportunities to get to know your own body and be creative. Apart from fulfilling the sexual urge, female masturbation has several benefits: self-empowerment, stress-release, and a better understanding of one’s own sexuality. While some women enjoy fantasizing about their men when masturbating, others simply like to think about their own body in the most erotic way. “Sex for one” is also one of the best places to overcome troubles with arousal and orgasm. Here are some benefits of indulging into female masturbation. These should definitely convince you about the idea of rolling your hands down towards the south, next time you get into the shower or Jacuzzi.
1. Get To Know Your Own Body and Mind
By female masturbating, you get to learn about things that turn you on. Mentally, you can tune into your deepest sexual fantasies and try things that turn you on during masturbation. Do you feel like being dominated in the sex? Do you love watching yourself dominating your partner? These are some clues that will help you understand what things can make your sexual experience with your partner more wild and enchanting. This is a good way to have your needs met through your partner.
Another major benefit of masturbating in terms of body is that girls who find difficulty in getting aroused or feeling orgasm can greatly benefit through it. Self love is the first step to feel the arousal and need for orgasm. Experimenting with toys is a good technique to make your body prepared for real sex. For example, using a vibrator is a common way for women to learn the techniques to achieve orgasm. The trick is to get familiar with your body, know how your mind wants your body to feel and communicate the same to your partner for some real experience.
2. Masturbation Does Have Many Health Benefits
Similar to intercourse, female masturbation is a great way to relieve stress and increase the products of “feel good” hormone. If you are not able to sleep well, masturbating can actually help induce some good sleep. The chemicals released during any kind of sexual activity can heal depression, stress and make you feel good instantly. There are many studies that suggest that women who masturbate are more likely to live a happy and carefree life. Such women also develop good body structure and enhanced beauty. What more? Well, you burn a lot of calories every time you masturbate. Masturbation is also a great way to avoid the risks of pregnancies and STDs.
3. Makes You A Sexier Person
The traditional concept that a sexually active woman does not need to masturbate is totally false. Sex with a partner is certainly great, but masturbation is no less. It doesn’t make any sense to deprive of yourself of “self love” if you have a partner. Think like that – will you deprive yourself from having the cake, just because you had an ice-cream? Of course, No! It is always better to eat your pizza, before you indulge into pasta. A little indulgence in yourself can make the real intercourse a lot easier, fun and wild, helping you make a good rapport with your partner.
4. Improve Rapport Between Partners
Mutual masturbation is also a great way to improve your sexual relationship with your partner. Partners that are aware of the perks of self pleasure and self-care in a relationship, exactly know how enticing it can be to indulge in mutual masturbation. Knowing what you love, what pleases you and how you like it, will definitely make your partner more inclined towards you. When indulging in mutual masturbation, even you can get to know his desires before being dictated during the act.
Basic Female Masturbation Techniques
Female masturbation can have varied versions. It is more focused on clitoral stimulation, which automatically produce countless ways to achieve the stimulation. To begin with, hands and fingers make a primary way to masturbate. However, most women prefer to work with sex toys for improved sexual pleasure.
Vibrator is one of the most preferred sex toys used by women. Available in wide range of shapes and sizes, the intensity of vibrators is controllable. Dildo is another way to get the pleasure of feeling a man’s penis inside your vagina.
Apart from sex toys, there are many other ways to get into the mood and get aroused. For example: a flowing stream of water is a good medium to get sexually aroused. Lie down in your tub, run the water at full stream and let it flow directly on your vagina. Using water jets and having a hot Jacuzzi bath are also a good way for stimulation.
Remember that the setting and situation play a very important role for a good masturbatory experience. It is important to choose a location where you can get plenty of time to masturbate. Make sure you lock your room and switch your phone off for uninterrupted pleasure. It is essential to feel relaxed and focused for maximum pleasure. Female masturbation is a great way to get back in sync with your body.
Female Masturbation Is Absolutely A Yes!
However you choose to masturbate, make sure you feel comfortable about the whole idea in the first place. Things like guilt or discomfort should not even cross your mind before, while or after masturbating. It’s your body and you have all the right to do what makes you good with it. Experimenting with different methods will help you explore a lot of unexplored aspects of your body, making you sexier and wanted by your partner. So, go ahead, ditch your clothes and spend some “me” time with yourself. You should pleasure yourself before you make anyone else. Go ahead and touch yourself. You’ll definitely feel glad that you did.
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