Every aspect of life requires some measure of creativity in order to remain interesting. If you love cooking then you are going to experiment with different ingredients. If you like to paint then you probably have more than one type of brush. Even mundane tasks like commuting to work can be made a little more fun, especially if you carpool with friends. But there is one specific area in life that is the most fun to experiment with, namely sex! What is the best way to get creative in the bedroom? Through some naughty sex games of course. The best part is that these games are exciting and satisfying at the same time. To help get those creative juices flowing, here are some sexy suggestions you can try out.
Sex Games for Couples
Sexual Exploration
You’d think that guys wouldn’t really have a problem when it comes to sharing their sexual fantasies with you, but you would be wrong. Just like you might have your reservations about what you share, they too have some difficulty. The thing that makes this game so interesting is that it speaks directly to this particular communication gap. Both of you start by writing down a number of fantasies you would like to “play out” on a piece of paper and keep them under a designated category such as Naughty, Very Naughty and Beyond Naughty. It doesn’t really matter what you call your categories, as long as you both understand how they differ in terms of extremity.
After you have written down an equal amount of fantasies, throw them in 3 different bowls or hats and take turns to draw. As the fantasy is drawn, regardless of who wrote it, the fantasy has to be fulfilled. However, both of you should be entitled to a veto, just in case there is some discomfort with a specific suggestion. With this game you won’t just be having fun, but you will discover a side of your partner you didn’t know was there.
The Mystery Timer
Here is a game that couples who have been together for a relatively long time can really enjoy, but it’s definitely not exclusive to them. All it requires is an alarm that goes off in different intervals, which is set secretly by you or your partner. Here is a good example of how it works. You and your partner decide to fool around for the first 10 minutes with all your clothes on. Before that alarm goes off you are not allowed to remove one item of clothing. When it does go off you are allowed to remove your clothes, but you’re not allowed to touch each other’s “sweet spots” or penetrate.
You can have as many phases as you want, but really play around with the amount of time you give yourself. The couples who have been together for some time are probably used to a fundamental pattern of foreplay and stuff like that, which makes the Mystery Timer a great game to spice things up.
A Public Tease
Having sex in public is relatively risky, because if you get caught then your orgasm will be ruined by handcuffs. For the couples who love to live life with this kind of excitement, more power to you, but it’s not always necessary to go over the top. In fact, there are several things you can do that are perfectly legal and extremely exciting. For example, make out as if you are the only two people on earth. Don’t be afraid to get that tongue-action going and turning up the passion.
Ladies, if you want to take things a little further then you can always remove your panties and hand them to your man. Throw in some kinky talk like, “I’ve been waiting to do that the whole day.” A skirt is the best outfit for this little game and you can be sure that your partner will be counting down the seconds until you are alone.
The Virgin
Consider this a little bit of role-playing, because either you or your partner is going to be the virgin. First, find a place where you won’t be disturbed. You could do it in your bedroom, but you want to move outside of your comfort zone a little bit, so maybe use the car while it’s parked in the garage. Once you have a spot you can decide who will be portraying the virgin, which also means assigning a mentor. The mentor then has to tell the virgin what should be done and how. Basically, one of you is going to learn to have sex all over again.
This game allows a lot of room for growth. Don’t be surprised to hear that your partner likes things you’ve never even thought off, or shows you how to make your technique better. In the end it’s a learning curb and a beneficial process for both parties.
Naughty Girl
It’s the classic, “I was a bad girl” routine and it always works like a charm. When your man steps through the door you hand him your hairbrush and tell him all the bad things you’ve done. You can make them up or you can tell him about a simple daily routine you forgot to do, either way he needs to discipline you. Now, this kind of discipline is not meant to be violent. Instead, it should be done with sexual foreplay in mind.
In case you didn’t know, a light spanking speaks to the same feelings that cause sexual arousal. If it’s done with something innocent like a hairbrush or even his hand then you can expect to get turned on very quickly. In turn, he will get off by being the authority figure.
There are no set rules to a certain sex game and there should never be limitations on creativity. You and your partner can make up sex games as you go along or you can borrow some suggestions like those mentioned above, just as long as you give them a try. Your job might be boring, your car might be boring and your house might be boring too, but you have no excuse for a boring sex life. There are many ways to create sexual sparks and all you need is a little imagination.