In an increasingly busy world, most people want to get things done in
the minimum time possible so as to save time for other equally
important activities. Attracting the right man, the man of your dreams
is among some of these things. Well, you might have heard it said that
you have to kiss many frogs before you find your prince, but this no
longer has to be the case. A good man is hard to find and in the
contemporary world where the roles are hugely reversed, one would be
lead to assume that it is good to go up and initiate a conversation
with a guy that you are interested in, sociologists and dating experts
think otherwise. Primal urges and behavior still largely dominate in a
world we consider civilized. Men are considered to be the game
starters, and in light to this, they are the ones who should do the
chasing.
While the initial step of starting up a conversation for the first
time is considered to be a man’s job, it doesn’t mean that there is
nothing you can do in the meantime. You can get the man’s attention
and attraction to get his “motor running” before even contemplating
striking up a conversation. This way, you get him to think about you
and what you can offer him, facts that will make him approach you and
in the process ignite a spark between the two of you. For many women
want a supportive, loving and strong man who also respects them. If he
is good looking, then that is a bonus. But just how do you balance it?
Being a man magnet and getting the man you attract to treat you like a
lady. Below is a peek as to strategies that are substantiated by
research that will turn you into a popular man magnet.
Risking stating the obvious, some of the most basic steps that you
should consider are looking your best always and being aware of good
body language. Good body language include: adopting the right posture,
knowing when to look into a man eyes and when to drop your eyes and
definitely smiling a lot. When done properly, these gestures will not
only exude confidence but also display happiness. The positive energy
displayed when you smile often and making it appear like you are
having fun at what you are doing is alluring and will attract men at
any time of the day. Confidence displayed from your body language is
one of the top traits that attract people to you, less so men.
Respectable men that are both loving and caring, regardless of the
place the hail from in this globe, will want a lady that can handle
herself. A display of independence to show that you know what you want
and just how to get what you want, is something that seems to
endlessly attract men. Additionally, men with respect are continually
looking for women who will challenge then. By showing that you know
yourself and your stuff on top of other things is an intellectual
challenge that assures a man that he will not get bored with you.
Lastly though not the least, men are always attracted to a hard
target. Thus by playing hard-to-get some of the time will not only
ward off bad men but also net you the right man in the long run!
